Adult Sex Toys For Couples
It’s not unusual for couples sex accessories to be wary about playing with toys due to the social stigma associated with the idea. But if you have an open dialogue and go shopping together for toys, Boyajian says that they can help build an intimacy and create excitement.
Adult sexual toys for couples can strengthen relationships, boost sexual satisfaction, and add spice to foreplay and partnered play. Consent is essential.
1. Dual-Ended vibrators
Dual-ended vibrations give you the best of both worlds, whether you are looking for a a powerful, rumbling sensation or something more subtle and soft to increase your enjoyment. They’re textured to provide internal stimulation, and can be easily moved around areas of erogenous stimulation. They can be used to penetrate. This dual-button vibrator features 10 different patterns and speeds of vibration and is made of body-safe silicone. It’s submersible, and can be used in the bath, on the beach or even while showering.
This sexy wand features a textured round flexi neck head that can stretch to fit your partner’s curves. It can also reach deep into clitoris area for an intense orgasm. The long, thin oval end is specifically designed for prostrate or anal stimulation, and is the length of around 4 inches. The smooth surface feels wonderful to the touch and delivers powerful, rumbling vibrations.
The sleek, subtle design of this toy will have you swooning. It’s compact and can easily fit in your pocket for quick pick-me-ups or to take on long road journeys. The body-safe, ribbed silicone is velvety smooth and a pleasure to hold. The rumble of this vibration is powerful enough to get your heart pumping but not so loud that you’ll disrupt your partner.
In contrast to many sex toys this one isn’t too sexy to look at and comes in black or pink, purple and teal (although our testers prefer the gray, which doesn’t feel like a 1990s porn star). The rounded, flexible neck head has an elongated tail that can be used to stimulate the clitoral tissue and is suitable for both vaginal and anal play. The silicone is smooth and phthalate-free, making it body-safe. It’s combined with a solid glass core for an experience that is incredibly comfortable when it’s piercing.
This rechargeable wand has 10 different vibration settings and provides up to Edge 2 By Lovense Adjustable Prostate Massager hours playtime. It is made of ABS plastic and body-safe silicone. It is also waterproof and USB rechargeable. It’s shorter than other options on the list and has a strong, firm body that’s not particularly flexible. (Perfect for sexual or sexual stimulation). It has an internal battery, so you won’t be running out of power during your session.
2. Harnesses
Couples who enjoy exploring in the bedroom should think about using an appropriate harness to add some spice to foreplay, anal play or even sex during intercourse. The harnesses are equipped with dildos, vibrators and hooks to secure them to the clitoris, vagina or the nipples. Some have a sexy design that includes silky, skin-friendly materials while others are more basic and have the waistband made of elastic or nylon that can be worn over the butt and on the back to provide extra support.
Harnesses can be particularly beneficial for couples who enjoy pegging (the method of slipping a dildo into the vagina to enhance sexual intimacy and enjoyment) or any type of consensual power exchange. The Lovehoney Beginner’s Strap-On Kit is a great starting point for anyone who is new to. It includes an adjustable harness, two dildos of different sizes, and a bullet vibration to slip behind the dildo.
For those who prefer an easier, more hands-free experience, the Luvli Ditto 2 wearable couples vibrator toy features a direct clit and g-spot stimulator that can also be placed inside the tongue to provide pleasure. Handcuffs and blindfolds are also available to provide a kinky sexual experience, or paddles that stimulate the nipple or the anal region.
Some couples massagers who play with adult toys for sex feel uneasy or a bit competitive as they fear that their partner will be jealous. To avoid this, Ashford suggests communicating openly and asking your partner if they’re comfortable in experimenting with sex toys or accessories that could enhance their pleasure. Focus on the enjoyment that the accessories and toys bring to your relationship, and not trying to beat each other. Always apply a water-based lubricant to any sexually explicit accessory or toy and ensure that you’re both comfortable with the experience.
3. Strokers
These toys could appear like a unique toy for clitoral or oral stimulation however, they are great for couples looking to take things up a notch. We love the Fun Factory Manta Vibrating Male Stroker for its ridges, numerous vibration patterns, and sexy form that can be gripped with both hands (think foreplaying with the back of your head) or placed between a cock to enhance the intensity of your play. Strokers are also good for stimulating clitorises, nipples and frenulums.
We love the Fleshlight zero flip hole toy. It opens like a book and has a spherical interior that will take you and your partner into a wild ride. Choose a dildo designed for couple’s play, such as the Lovehoney Double-Ended Strap-On Dildo. It’s body-safe, has two vibration modes and creates an intimate bond during play that gives both partners satisfaction.
Other sex toys that make great additions to the bedroom include the Lovehoney double-ended vibrator, which targets both G-spot and clit for pleasure on a whole new level ($70). We’re also seeing lots of ring-shaped stimulators offering various vibrating, pulsation and intensity levels. Orgasma Massagers by We-Vibe are also very popular as they’re ideal for clitoral and nipple arousal with your lover.
If you’re concerned about sexual toys that contain harmful materials, Ashford recommends choosing rechargeable vibrators over battery-powered ones, and prioritizing toys made of high-quality and non-porous materials that are hygienic and safe to clean and sterilize. Communication is the key factor before making the transition to toys in the bedroom.
Whatever the raunchy or gentle your bedtime romps may be the most romantic toys for couples can make a huge difference to your sexual experience and allow you to discover new ways to enjoy each other. Just remember to keep the lines of communication open and make sure to use lube to enhance your experience with each other–and a good cup of tea for later.
4. Thongs
Thongs are a great option for those looking to enhance their intimate moments. There are many options available, whether you want a sexy cotton thong or a lace toe. Thongs are also an excellent option for swimming as they’re usually made from materials that dry quickly.
Thongs are available in different styles, including traditional thongs, G-strings, and C-strings that include rears for the string. They come in a variety materials, such as silk, microfiber, cotton, and many more. They are also able to offer package enhancement by using the design specifically designed for this purpose or simply by being stretchy and offering support. There are also novelty designs that are genitals-friendly in the form shapes.